The 2021 we’ve been waiting for has not yet begun.
I was reminded of this when I received a meme from a friend. It said, “Omg, what’s the first thing you’re gonna do when YOU get the vaccine shot?? You’re gonna go back home, wait a month, get your second shot, go back home, wait 14 days for antibodies, then keep wearing a mask and social distancing until community transmission reduction. That’s what.”
When it finally gets here, the 2021 we’ve been waiting for will be different than 2020, but in what way, I cannot say.
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Jane Friedman:
One of my bad habits is that when I receive what is clearly a thank-you card in the mail, I decide to open it later. But sometimes, I never do. I have one thank-you card still unopened from 2017. About six others (more recent) also sit on my desk.
I’ve often wondered what is wrong with me. I may have figured out the answer.
In his article What Makes Us Happy?, Joshua Wolf Shenk
explores the Harvard Study of Adult Development, one of the longest-running studies of human well-being, started in 1937.
One of the study’s subjects was a doctor and well-loved husband. For his 70th birthday, his wife solicited letters from his longtime patients, asking if they would like to write a message of appreciation. A hundred people responded, and she put these letters in a presentation box and gifted them to her husband.
Eight years later, the man had still never read the letters. He told the interviewer, “It’s very hard for most of us to tolerate being loved.”